fix(electric): Fix the order of case clauses when parsing database SSL config

[alco]

@icehaunter spotted this in #1249 (comment).

I have reordered the case clauses by specificity and added comments for readability.

[icehaunter]

This is a breaking change because it switches the default from false to true on DATABASE_REQUIRE_SSL. This matches the docs though. This is specified in the issue VAX-1839. So coordinate with @samwillis and @balegas on this

[alco]

When the default value of DATABASE_REQUIRE_SSL was set to true in #767 (2023-12-22), it was implemented correctly. The later change that accidentally flipped the default (#848) was made on 2024-01-18.

I would argue this is a bug fix, more than a breaking change, but still worth mentioning in the Release Notes.

[alco]

Corrections:

• the original enforcement of SSL connections by default was released in v0.9.0 on 2024-01-18.
• the "fix" that added support for sslmode and accidentally flipped the default value was released in v0.9.1 on 2024-01-24.

[samwillis]

I agree it should be should to true.

[alco]

I have prepared a draft of release notes if we release this change as part of a patch release.

[msfstef]

Seems like everyone agrees on this change (I see Valter acked on Linear too) so I think we can get this merged? (I've had deploy issues/confusion as well because of this so making sure we get it merged!)